Tuesday, March 30, 2010

Kids These Days...

Its been awhile since my last post but its really getting hard for me to think of topics to write about. But every time I do come across or think of a topic I try to write about it and share it with my readers. Hopefully people are interested in my blog and people will continue reading them. Feel free to share this with your friends so I get more readers and followers =D.

So I was trying to think of a topic to write about until I came across something that gave me an idea. On Sunday late afternoon I ate with family and my cousin asked for a ride to his girlfriend's house. Just when I was pulling up to the driveway he saw his girlfriend's dad's van parked in the driveway and said "Damn her dad's home..." and that made me think. Parents will pretty much always hate who your dating if they find out... or you tell them (Especially if your a girl that's dating).

If your a dude and you go to your girlfriends house, her dad will pretty much hate you no matter who you are. Why? Because well your dating his precious little flower and no father wants that. Generally the mom isn't too defensive about what kinda guy their daughters date unless they really are bad for them. Guys know that the dad will hate them but they normally will be nice and courteous to try and minimize the hate. But the thing about this is that SOME girls like it when their parents hate who they date... It has something to do with getting back at their parents haha.

If your a chick and you go to your boyfriends house, his mom will probably hate you and you'll probably hate her. I can't explain it but it seems like they never get along with each other. It has to do with some generation gap or something haha. The dad will probably not really care what kinda girl their son dates.

So yea I just thought this was interesting and something I should share to my readers.

What kind of issues did you encounter with your BF/GF's parents?
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Friday, March 26, 2010

Never 100%

I was flipping through the channels the other day and I saw one of my favorite shows on... Friends. For those who watches Friends it was the episode where Rachel tells Ross that shes pregnant with his baby. Now this episode is VERY IMPORTANT to everyone in the world. This episode was important because it told the viewers that condoms are not 100% effective... Their like 97% effective from preventing pregnancy even when used correctly. In many other comedy TV series they did a similar thing saying that condoms are never 100%.

Now as a dude... this scares the !@#$ outta me. I mean like so 3% of the time they never work?!?! I'll admit that my "little soldier" hasn't explored the world yet but learning something like that before hand is probably one of the most important things on my list. I mean if you do decide to do it... and you do the right thing by using a condom theirs still a 3% chance things can go horribly horribly wrong... I think that's the kinda thing they should scream at you in health class everyday.

So I just wanted to let my readers know this because... well its important. So condoms are 97% effective when used correctly.......Yea...... just something you should know... Oh yea just to let you know they put it on the box if you wanna make sure.

Did you know condoms are only 97% effective?
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Wednesday, March 24, 2010

What would you do for a Klondike Bar...I Mean Girl...

I find it amazing what guys (Including myself xD) would do for a pretty face. Some people change their personality completely just to get that person, some get nervous and act differently, and some are just themselves . There's always that girl whether it's someone you just met, a friend or a girlfriend, whoever it is you usually act differently around them.

But normally at a party/club or where ever you met girls (Cough* Pick up girls )you tend to act differently to those your going for... In your eyes the girl with the pretty face. I'm not talking about those guys who pretend to be someone else to win a girl over... I'm just talking about how sometimes you do things for that pretty girl that normally you wouldn't do. Now personally I can't explain why people do it they just do it. AND after you do it, you think to yourself "Why the hell did I just do that..."

I'll admit that I'm a sucker for a pretty face hahaha. I won't get into to much detail... that's all you need to know about me =P. But sometimes I see what a guy would do for a girl and it amazes me what they would go through. So I just want to let you guys know... THINK before you do that stupid, ridiculous task/favor for that girl. I know I should haha.

How you ever did something stupid for a pretty girl?
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Saturday, March 20, 2010

Kiss and Tell

It's funny how I hear the saying "I don't kiss and tell". I don't think I met anyone who hasn't Kiss and Told haha. No matter who you are, boy or girl chances are that you are going to tell your best friend(s) AT THE LEAST what happened. It is possible that you may not want to tell depending on who it was but even then you tell your friends your side of the story on what happened.

There's just something about it that you just gotta tell your friends. I know I'm a guy and girls might say "Your a dude so you gotta tell your guy friends what happened". I don't think that's the case because girl will get together and talk among their girl group or tell their best friend. At the end of a day your going to call up your friend and tell them "Dude I just made out with that hot chick" or "OMG I just kiss that cute guy from Math class". It can even be "Why did I kiss that chick..." or "Why did I kiss that guy..." Whatever it may be your going to tell a friend exactly what happened.

I'm not saying this is a bad thing... Its just a thing that always happens you know? This is something you always share with your buddies. But be careful who you tell because this kinda news spreads faster than a fat guy eating a Big Mac.

So what happened at your last score? (If your willing to tell =P)
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Friday, March 19, 2010

Easier Said Than Done

Every guy that has game tries give their advice about girls and normally hands out the same advice as everyone else. They normally tell you what to do and not do... what girls like and not like. Things like how you need to go in asking a girl with confidence without that thought of rejection (Of Course). Yea sometimes you learn some new things but when it comes down to it... its all you.

People can say a lot of things that interest you. I happen to like to listen to people's advices in certain situations but there are so many circumstances where they just don't know what to do and they try to hand you the same advice. Everyone is different and handles the situation differently. The advice that people hands to you normally isn't easy for you do to.

What I'm trying to get at here is that when people tell you to do this and that, you don't have to do this and that... you probably should just ignore it when they give you that kinda "advice". BUT sometimes they just wanna say their own opinions so that's different too. However the bottom line is that its your decision and you gotta step up and say and do what you want.

So yea I just wanted to make a quick blog about people handing advice.
Do you agree that its easier said than done?

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Tuesday, March 16, 2010

Never Fly Solo... Unless You Can

Haha I'm going to talk about something I should of talked about a long time ago... The Wingman. This is something we all know about, including girls. I mean seriously do you honestly think that they haven't caught on? Truth is, girls know how to counter your wingman and have known probably how to a day after since it's been invented. What's there counter you ask? It's the same thing as a Wingman except girls protect their friends from getting hit on by guys... Haha some refer it to "Chickblock" and of course other names have been used as well.

But I find it funny because it's like an aerial battlefield. You normally have 2 guys and they back each other up trying to get the girl they choose and you normally have 2 girls doing the same thing (Those who don't know fighter pilots fly in pairs). But unlike fighter pilots sometimes your wing leaves you behind. There's always that time where your wingman sees someone he likes and forces you to fly solo. When that happens it probably will result in a crash unless you know what your doing. Sometimes your wingman will jump on that grenade to save you. But girls on the other hand usually stick together on the battlefield and fight till the end.



It's also very possible to go stealth and have a wingwoman which is really rare I believe. I don't know to much about the wingwoman theory so I won't get into detail.

But for the most part even though girls know our system, and sometimes you may have a bad wing its still probably the best way to get a girl...(At a party/bar) I mean fighter pilots still fly in pairs. Some people do prefer and are better flying solo and there's nothing wrong with that. So next time you get on the battlefield you better have a wing with you or you better know what your doing. Hooah!

1) Do you think having a wingman is the best way?
OR
2) Can a wingwoman be better than a wingman?
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Sunday, March 14, 2010

Say Ahh

I went to a friends house for a birthday party last night and it was pretty fun. I walk into the house and the first song I hear was "Say Ahh - Trey Songz" and heard it a few more times throughout the night. Now its funny how every time I end up at a drinking party, you gotta represent your old high school name for all the drinking games. It's also funny how when it reach's the middle point of the party, pretty much everyone is tipsy/drunk and you see all the guys with the girl they want to be with haha.



I was only a little tipsy at the party and that was nothing compared to a lot of people. Now at this party I learned something very valuable. At a party everything changes and you can throw away pretty much everything out the window on what you know about girls. What I mean by that is, there's no such thing as personality. You can be say and be whatever guy you want. As long as your fun at the party, that's all that matters.
Although this may sound kinda harsh, this is what I think is true and its my personal opinion.

Do you agree with my opinion?
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Friday, March 12, 2010

Take me out to that ball game

The day before yesterday I was talking to one of my friends and he suggested something I should talk about on my blog. I was thinking of writing something like this before but forgot about it until my friend mentioned it. It was ironic because his topic was exactly what the radio talked about that day. If your wondering the radio station it's Kiss 92.5 but they only sometimes talk about this kinda stuff.

This topic is about the bases of "Baseball" if you catch my drift. The radio talked about what each base meant because apparently a lot of people mix up the bases. There is only 1 correct way to "play the game".

First Base - French Kissing
Second Base - Involves touching of area(s) of partner **WITH Clothing**
Third Base - Involves touching of area of partner *WITHOUT Clothing*
Home Base - Hallelujah Haha

So yea those are the bases of "baseball" and I'm sure that explains most of it without me having to actually write it on the blog. Now of course they're more terms like "Home Run" and "Strikeout". You can even get into more detail like who the "Pitcher" and "Catcher" are HAHA (I'm sure you know what those terms are). But those are the official bases of "baseball" and you can't change them around.

What did you think each base meant before you read this?
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Tuesday, March 9, 2010

Planning Perfection

Alright so I just wanna let my readers know that I'm gonna start putting up less blogs on a weekly basis because soon I will run out of things to say... and I don't want that. Haha I want to keep it interesting.

You finally meet that special girl and you take that step forward to ask her out. And I think its always hard for a guy to get that courage to go up to that girl, start a conversation from thin air and ask her out. Now some guys have a system of how to get the ladies and it varies from getting a wing from a bro to just saying that cheesy pickup line to break to ice. Every girl will respond differently to every line/move you do so you gotta know what your doing. Some guys just naturally know right from the start what to say and do in order to get that girl. That's not that case for me haha.

What I do is something... unique (You can call it what you want once you know what I do haha). I tend to plan exactly what I want to say and what I should do. And every girl is different so of course I re-arrange my plan accordingly. I'm not saying I change my personality to get that girl because every girl wants a guy that true. Now the thing is about my "plan" is that it doesn't work haha. My plan goes way off track and I end up just being a friendly guy. Not that that's a bad thing.

I think at some level every guy has a plan on what to do to get that special girl. It's possible that girls have a plan too. So my question to everyone is Whats Your Plan?

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Saturday, March 6, 2010

Everybody Lies

I have a lot of friends that like to talk about girl kinda topics. So I like to share a lot of what they say and what they taught me. I remember one really good friend that gave me the most memorable and important tips and advices about girls. Every time I had a question it seemed he always had an answer for everything. There was one particular thing that he said that stuck in my head.

"Girls are amazing at lying"

I'm not saying all girls are liars because EVERYBODY LIES. Now when he first told me this it got me thinking. I wasn't questioning my friend because everything he tells me seemed to be true. And now I know he couldn't be more right about this.

I remember awhile ago my high school friends and I were eating Korean BBQ and one of my guys friends let something slip. He said "We got you something for your birthday". Now I hate surprises and I'm as stubborn as you can get when it comes to gifts. So when he told me this I wasn't too happy. I remember then I asked one of my female friends who was sitting next to me why you guys got me a gift. At that moment she did it. She gave me the most convincing *I Don't Know what your talking about Look* I have ever seen and I believed her. I know it wasn't a huge lie but the truth is... girls are amazing at lying. I didn't find out she was lying until months later and till this day I'm still surprised at how well girls can lie.

Now I'm not saying girls are the only ones that lie because guys lie too. But the difference is that we get caught lying haha. So I just wanted to send out a message to my fellow bros that girls can be very deceiving when they want to be. So be on the lookout! I'm not saying don't trust your female friends of girlfriend, I'm just saying...xD

Do you believe girls are deceiving?
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Friday, March 5, 2010

Tough Shell


Alright so I found out that more people actually read my blog then I thought which is awesome. A few people have been saying its a pretty good blog so far and I want to say thanks for reading! One of my friends said "It's mostly about girls." Why wouldn't most of it be about girls?... I'm a guy. So then she had a request for a blog and wanted an answer to a question about us guys. I thought it would be a great way to explain something to my female readers while also defending us guys.

Her question was "Why guys act like nothing bothering them and act all tough"

Well the main reason for this is because... well we're guys. We do everything we can not to expose our emotions. The way I see it is that once you let that thing bother you out, then it's pretty much like me giving up and breaking down. The way we think, emotions are almost like a sign of weakness. And I believe to never show a sign of weakness in life. It has nothing to do with the girl specifically. It just easier to keep your mouth shut, put on a poker face and plow through. Although everyone is different and I can't speak for all guys.

Do you have a request for a blog topic?
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Wednesday, March 3, 2010

What's the Score?

Its funny on what people keep score on. Some people keep score in sports, some in poker, and for some reason I know a guy that keep score on girls. It seems that my buddy likes to keep track of how many times he "Wins" and "Loses". Now I don't really understand his "Game" to well but it seems that he's in competition with some other guy. From what I remember he's losing the battle but he's still standing. Haha don't get me wrong he's a nice guy and all just saying I find it weird how he does this.

But I have to say, I don't think its a good idea keep track of this particular "game". All this is going to do is create competition with your friends and other bros. I mean isn't that we last thing we want? BUT saying that you shouldn't never give up getting that girl you really like. It ain't over until the fat lady sings.

Do you know anyone that keeps score on girls?
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Monday, March 1, 2010

It's a Reflex!

Another day and another time to share one of my stories. I know Russell Peters already covered this before but I want to tell you my experience.

I remember awhile back my high school buddies and I were at Destiny's drinking bubble tea. It wasn't long before we ended up see many more classmates and we all ended up sharing a table and talking about the university life... Now of course I was just there to listen and be with my good friends. Alright so I have a female friend (No names) and we usually talk about relationship topics. She was apart of the many classmates at Destiny's.

Now I have no idea how she saw but she caught me looking at one of the waitresses for half a second that passed by. I honestly had no intention to check her out or anything, I just looked and looked back. Now my friend says "Canny I saw that" *With a big smirk on her face*. IT'S A REFLEX!!! Of course I knew what she was talking about but I tried to play it cool and responded with poor "=S"

Now ladies I don't know what you think about when this happens but it's honestly a reflex... well for me it is and I'm sure it is for many guys. So ladies when you see your guy friend/BF do a half a second glimpse at a girl that happens to walk by... don't get angry because it doesn't mean anything.

Has you ever encountered this before?
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